A few years ago, I wrote a blog on MySpace entitled "Fat, Like Me". In that blog, I delved into the "fat discrimination" issue and the attitude towards those who were overweight. I went head-on into it because I had first hand experience about the overweight/obesity issue. I should know, around the time I reprised the blog in 2010, I weighed at least 300 pounds. I will never know how much I weighed back then since I never weighed myself.
Honestly, I did not want to-- because it would be too shocking since I weighed about 180 twenty years earlier. I was a fat kid, and teenage angst made me thinner. I dieted, but I did it out of anger. In my "angry" years, mainly in my 20's, I wanted to be THE GUY with a chip on his shoulder! But something happened, I got laid, okay I got a job first (and THEN I got laid, but enough about me and my libido later). But as I got "happier", and got more money, and got a piece now and then (okay, I'll stop), I started to get relaxed and my anger slowed down (because who can get laid pissed off and broke?) The truth was I was comfortable and I was more accepting towards myself. For those who remembered me in my 20's...well, I am surprised some of you are my friends on Facebook! By the way, sorry I was an asshole back then!
So when I wrote that blog, I was fairly happy and fat... AND THEN THE RECESSION HAPPENED! In the field of work I'm in, mental health (MR/DD), State and Federal funds got cut and so did my hours. I ended up getting a second job in Geriatrics, but the squeeze already started! It got to the point that I was spending more on gas than food-- whatever food I could buy, I rationed. I kinda got angry again but instead of dwelling on the miserable economy, I set goals. I started walking my dogs more often, then I started to walk myself about 5-10 miles a week.
But the signs were out there to lose weight. I had some fat jokes thrown around by my clients, especially my clients in my Geriatric job! Also, I woke up short of breath on several occasions.When I bent over just to tie my shoe, I felt like I was choking myself! I also purchsed a size 46 pair of shorts that I barely squeezed into. Probably around in April of 2010, I might have weighed 315 pounds! Around that time I wrote "Fat, Like Me", I wrote about being fat because I WAS fat! I'm still fat now, but I now can be considered "chubby".
Two years, close to four pant sizes, and maybe 71 pounds later (I actually WEIGH myself now and I currently weigh 244 lbs.!), my BODY is starting to get happy! I can squeeze into a 38' pair of pants but I can wear size 40's with ease (which is GREAT b/c anything over a 44" waist is at least two dollars more in most chain stores)! I have a waistline now and in the shower, I CAN NOW SEE MY BALLS!!!! Sorry Mom and others who are "sensitive readers"for the frankness, but seeing my "man parts' in the shower is a liberating experience! I even RAN a mile a couple of weeks ago!
With a new waistline come a new attitude. If I can lose 70 plus pounds, maybe I can do ANYTHING! And "anything" is starting to happen, I'm getting more hours, I am now out more often (but eat out less), and I have more women talking to me. I am working to lose a few more pounds (to the point I will write a blog called "Skinny, Like Me"), and I am working to get a girlfriend, maybe a wife-- after I have seen my own "man parts" I wouldn't mind seeing some "lady parts" now and then!
Call it a "diet", but I never really dieted; I just cut down on food and go for more walks (now I'm up to at least 2 miles a day, 5 days a week). Call it an "attitude change' but I still believe that fat discrimation is still out of hand and overweight people are still looked down upon which I still think is wrong. I am in a new category now, but I'm not going to do a commercial nor be on "Biggest Loser" (I STILL HATE that show, by the way). Even now, after all the weight I had lost, I am still blind when it comes to looks. Looks count, but I still go for personalities first! I still can't get into the whole "skinny" thing and I will still have a pizza or chips and dip but it's few and far between. After all of this, I still want a girl who's not "exactly" skinny. The bottom line is that self appreciation comes in any size! And in the words of SNL character, Stuart Smalley "... and that's OKAY!"
Honestly, I did not want to-- because it would be too shocking since I weighed about 180 twenty years earlier. I was a fat kid, and teenage angst made me thinner. I dieted, but I did it out of anger. In my "angry" years, mainly in my 20's, I wanted to be THE GUY with a chip on his shoulder! But something happened, I got laid, okay I got a job first (and THEN I got laid, but enough about me and my libido later). But as I got "happier", and got more money, and got a piece now and then (okay, I'll stop), I started to get relaxed and my anger slowed down (because who can get laid pissed off and broke?) The truth was I was comfortable and I was more accepting towards myself. For those who remembered me in my 20's...well, I am surprised some of you are my friends on Facebook! By the way, sorry I was an asshole back then!
So when I wrote that blog, I was fairly happy and fat... AND THEN THE RECESSION HAPPENED! In the field of work I'm in, mental health (MR/DD), State and Federal funds got cut and so did my hours. I ended up getting a second job in Geriatrics, but the squeeze already started! It got to the point that I was spending more on gas than food-- whatever food I could buy, I rationed. I kinda got angry again but instead of dwelling on the miserable economy, I set goals. I started walking my dogs more often, then I started to walk myself about 5-10 miles a week.
But the signs were out there to lose weight. I had some fat jokes thrown around by my clients, especially my clients in my Geriatric job! Also, I woke up short of breath on several occasions.When I bent over just to tie my shoe, I felt like I was choking myself! I also purchsed a size 46 pair of shorts that I barely squeezed into. Probably around in April of 2010, I might have weighed 315 pounds! Around that time I wrote "Fat, Like Me", I wrote about being fat because I WAS fat! I'm still fat now, but I now can be considered "chubby".
Two years, close to four pant sizes, and maybe 71 pounds later (I actually WEIGH myself now and I currently weigh 244 lbs.!), my BODY is starting to get happy! I can squeeze into a 38' pair of pants but I can wear size 40's with ease (which is GREAT b/c anything over a 44" waist is at least two dollars more in most chain stores)! I have a waistline now and in the shower, I CAN NOW SEE MY BALLS!!!! Sorry Mom and others who are "sensitive readers"for the frankness, but seeing my "man parts' in the shower is a liberating experience! I even RAN a mile a couple of weeks ago!
With a new waistline come a new attitude. If I can lose 70 plus pounds, maybe I can do ANYTHING! And "anything" is starting to happen, I'm getting more hours, I am now out more often (but eat out less), and I have more women talking to me. I am working to lose a few more pounds (to the point I will write a blog called "Skinny, Like Me"), and I am working to get a girlfriend, maybe a wife-- after I have seen my own "man parts" I wouldn't mind seeing some "lady parts" now and then!
Call it a "diet", but I never really dieted; I just cut down on food and go for more walks (now I'm up to at least 2 miles a day, 5 days a week). Call it an "attitude change' but I still believe that fat discrimation is still out of hand and overweight people are still looked down upon which I still think is wrong. I am in a new category now, but I'm not going to do a commercial nor be on "Biggest Loser" (I STILL HATE that show, by the way). Even now, after all the weight I had lost, I am still blind when it comes to looks. Looks count, but I still go for personalities first! I still can't get into the whole "skinny" thing and I will still have a pizza or chips and dip but it's few and far between. After all of this, I still want a girl who's not "exactly" skinny. The bottom line is that self appreciation comes in any size! And in the words of SNL character, Stuart Smalley "... and that's OKAY!"